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Q: I
would like to have a dream to pursue but
can't seem to put my finger on what I
would like to do as my life's work.
There are many things I think would be
interesting but I can't decide. Any
suggestions?
Here a
few questions to help you to narrow down
what your smallest and biggest dreams
are. (Write down the questions and give
yourself permission to be as outrageous
as you can be!)
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What do I
love doing?
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What
would I like to leave behind as my
legacy?
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If
someone walked up to me today and asked,
"What is your life purpose?" What is my
first response?
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If I knew
I could fulfill my destiny would I
follow my hopes, wishes and dreams?
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What am I
declaring and committing to having,
doing and being in 2008?
Q: Now
that I have claimed my dream, my life is
so different. I seem to be redefining
and adjusting constantly. Also, barriers
seem to keep getting in the way of my
dream. This isn't the way I thought it
was supposed to be. Is this to be
expected?
A: When you claim your dream, you (and
your dream) begin the never-ending
process of becoming. Like a precious
metal, you are being refined, polished,
and perfected. This involves constant
movement, which translates to constant
change. Transformation is hardly ever
comfortable but the metamorphosis is
well worth the difficult adjustments
that constantly have to be made.
As for the barriers that keep getting in
the way, take a good look at them. Very
often they follow a consistent pattern
and represent where growth must occur
for change to take place. Usually these
blocks are the most difficult hurdles to
overcome. Many give up the challenge at
the very point where their commitment to
stay in the race is most necessary.
When these barriers are crossed, great
progress is made. Fortunately, this same
process repeats itself continually so
that you can move forward to ever-higher
goals. Creation is taking place and the
whole universe is supporting. It's not
easy and the continuation of this
celebrative process to reach out toward
your highest self is entirely up to you.
Q: How can I hire a dream coach if I don't have the money?
A: Lack of funds is often perceived as a
block by many individuals who say they
are ready to live their dream. Here's an
exercise that takes some time but is
quite worth the effort:
Take a one-year inventory of where you
spent the money you earned. What did you
spend the money on? What "necessities"
did you spend money on? More
importantly, what "non-essentials" did
you spend money on? Look at your list
again. Are there any patterns to your
spending? What do these patterns tell
you about what you truly value? Why do
you think you value these items? Is
there a pathway in your spending habits
through which you may discover what you
do want in your life or, conversely,
what you don't want in your life? Can
you get rid of some expenses entirely?
What are the excuses you have for not
getting rid of some of the expenses you
know you can do without?
There is a saying that necessity is the
mother of invention. When living your
dream becomes necessary to you, you'll
find the way to reach out toward it. If
you have a passion in life, the passion
itself will elevate you to overcome the
odds. You will dare to begin.
Q:
I
have noticed most of the people in my
world like to talk about what's wrong,
instead of what's possible or what's
right. What am I doing that attracts
this type of individual or why am I
attracting this energy?
A: The short answer is: it may be to
protect yourself from truly living your
dream. The long answer would be best
discussed in a coaching session with me.
Thank you for asking this question.
Q: I just started my new coaching business. I want to help, assist,
support and empower my clients. I heard you speak three years ago;
Joyce, and you said something that has stayed with me - in truth,
almost haunted me. You recommended that to live in a win/win world a
good question to continue to ask ourselves was, "This what I want,
do you want it too?" Can I call you so we can discuss this concept
in more depth?
A: Absolutely!
Click here to arrange for an introductory coaching
session session. And…congratulations and
good luck in your new business.
Q: If I sign up for coaching
or a home study course, or the
certification programs, how long does it
take before I can start?
Once I receive your
request and payment, we begin
immediately.
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